It has been a standing tradition since Maddie was a baby.
Nobody can say it better than these funny little creatures....I asked to put new carpet in the house.
Which I love.
But with that project came the tearing out of the carpet in our master bath.
Which led to a tile project because who wants carpet in their master bath??
So my "I'll do it myself and save us some $$$" husband rolled up his sleeves and embarked on a whole new understanding of manual labor.
He became a tile mason and
he also became a plumber during this project as the toilet had to be removed and reset once the tile was in place.
Then we decided why not redo the backyard and make it a more useful/family friendly space.
My awesome tile mason husband rolled up his sleeves again and decided to do it himself.
He then became a one man demolition/excavation show.
Is is too much to say that I love a man that isn't afraid to roll up his sleeves and get to work!!
Not only was he lifting huge chunks of cement with his pinkie finger, 
but he let the kids help, no matter how much it slowed him down.
Then the work on building the bench and fire pit began.
He became a precise cement mason.
And I saw this happen over and over...
...which really made my heart happy.
My handsome cement mason is still smiling!
Then he became an expert brick layer
and paver installer.
And also an electrician.
And the backyard overhaul is complete! 
With the exception of some patio furniture and some potted plants. But that's another day and another dollar!!
So what do you call a man that can do all of the above and still have a happy marriage to show for it??
I call him all mine!
I love you honey!
Thanks for your endless hours of hard work, repeated smashed fingers, and the list goes on.
I think I'll keep you around. : )
Oh, and this beauty you ask?? The incredible pergola was built by our master craftsman Jeff Nicholls. I can give you his number. He is such a great man. Except, of course, when he wears this get up! : )
I can hardly wait for beautiful blooms and vivacious vines to be climbing this canopy!
...since I've been tagged. Here we go ~
Six names you go by:
1- Andrea
2- Sis (I love that my brothers still call me this)
3- Sweetheart (still makes my heart go pitter-patter when Brent call me this)
4- Andie (but only allowed by my childhood dentist - mom was very adamant about this)
5- Sister Brown (by my 20 Beehives)
6- Mom or MOM!!! (depending on the need)
Three things you are wearing right now:
1- earrings that Carrie gave me
2- My wedding rings
3- my toe ring
Two things you want very badly at the moment:
1- a get-a-way with my husband
2- to loose 20 pounds
Three of your favorite things that you did last night:
1- went out for a treat with just my boyfriend
2- Played Wii with my THREE boys
3- went to bed early and fell fast asleep
Four things you ate today:
1- chips and homemade salsa
2- lemon melt a way cookies
3- pringles
4- axiously awaiting dinner with the Slade family
Two people you last talked to on the phone:
1- Mom Slade
2- Maddison
Six things you are going to do tomorrow:
1- work on YW in Excellence stuff
2- go to a YW presidency meeting
3- walk Cooper to school
4- read
5- make a new recipe for dinner
6- hug my kids and kiss my sweetheat
Three Favorite Beverages:
1- ice cold water
2- cherry coke zero (but it is a rare treat now)
3- Goofy's Kitchen hot chocolate
Five things you are grateful for today:
1- My family
2- Our home
3- My testimony
4- My friends
5- The talk that Brother Woolsey gave in Sacrament meeting today
I tag: Rachel and Hannah
Collette: If I added a question about Top 3 favorite U2 songs, would you participate?? If so, consider it added. : )
Standing in the kitchen moments ago, Brent and I were locked in a warm and passionate embrace. The kiss was. . . well. . .
spectacular!
Maddie and Cooper come around the corner and happen upon the scene.
Maddie shouts "Come on children!"
In chorus they exclaim (with much drama and peril)
"My eyes! They burn!"
Life is good!
I have a friend. Her name is Cathy.
I have been blessed by her thoughtfulness many times. The first Mother's Day that my mom spent at a nursing home, Cathy brought me flowers and a note that was not only kind but insightful and wise.
She is like that. Insightful and wise.
When I was with her the other day she said to me,
"It is always better to act more gracious than you feel."
Hmmm.
"You will have to apologize much less in your lifetime."
Oh, she's smart!
I'm sure I should apologize more than I do and I don't want to have to apologize as much as I should. So I'm going to try and save myself some guilt (I've got plenty. I could use a break) and try my hand at gracious living.
Cathy is a master teacher, much like my mother.
I think Cathy and my Mom would be great friends.
Church Leaders to Attend Inauguration of President-elect Barack Obama
LDS.org Newsroom01/17/2009 07:52 PM MST
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints will be represented at inaugural events for President-elect Barack Obama by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, second counselor in the First Presidency, and Elder M. Russell Ballard, a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.
The two leaders, who have been asked to represent the Church by Church President Thomas S. Monson, are scheduled to attend the swearing-in ceremony on January 20 and the National Prayer Service at Washington’s National Cathedral on January 21.
“It is always an honor for the Church to be represented at the inauguration of a new president,” said President Monson. “We send our best wishes to President-elect Obama and pray for the blessings of a loving Father in Heaven to be upon him and his administration.”
This article was accompanied by a FHE lesson on Optimism.
Which is really "what the world needs now"
(please burst into song along with me)
and of course
love sweet love!
We will be having this lesson tonight.
http://ldslivingmagazine.com/articles/show/1847
I know the Lord is aware of each of us.
I know He is aware of me.
I know He sends love, encouragement and understanding in many ways.
I know He wants me to be better,
to love more,
and to try and understand more fully the nearly incomprehensible greatness of the Atonement.
I have so much to learn.
Today I am grateful for this gem and the burning confirmation that accompanies TRUTH.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4WUsr689Y4
Timing is everything.
The Lord knows that too.
Davis was in charge of giving the lesson last night for FHE. He is working on his Faith in God requirements and in doing so taught the lesson on the Sacrament. He did a fantastic job and best of all he was given a powerful personal experience with the Holy Ghost. As a mother, I can't think of anything so rich and heartwarming as to be a witness of something such as that.
It was a moment I'll never forget.
I feel blessed today.
For some reason my pictures won't show up.
I think Jana sabotaged this post!
Jana celebrates her 40th in style.
She told us she was holding back.
She is pretty confident she could do this for a living.
and Simon agrees with her!
We love you Jana.
So the rest of the story unfolds this morning when Cooper and I enjoy our wake up snuggle. After cuddling for a bit:
Mom: So Cooper, I'd really like to talk about what happened yesterday at school.
Cooper (he puts his fists to his eyes and buries his head into my shoulder): Mom, I really don't want to talk about it.
Mom: I'd like to find out if something was going on that I should know about. Were you talking too much or were you not doing your work?
Cooper (he removes his fists from the deep sockets of his eyes which I can tell now were being used to hold back some tears): Well, all I did was ask Trey for a black crayon because I didn't have one.
Mom: Okay, that doesn't sound too bad. Maybe next time you could raise your hand and ask if you could please ask your friend for a crayon. How does that sound?
He is good with that and so am I so the morning carries on.
I walk him to school and when he disappears to the end of line and out of ear shot I ask his OH SO INCREDIBLE teacher what had happened and if I needed to take care of anything. She looked at me so confused and said she didn't take 5 minutes from Cooper's recess. Maybe it was Mrs. D, the teacher's aid. Mrs. D turns to me and said no, what actually happened was that when she came out to recess that Cooper, much to her surprise, was standing against the wall (which is the timeout spot for any given offense) and she asked why he was on the wall and if he was feeling okay. Cooper just looked at her and said, "Mrs. Monsegur said I had five minutes on the wall." So the three of us put it together. Right before recess the class was rather chatty and Mrs. Monsegur and to ring her bell often to quite things down. She then said that the next person to talk will have to get 5 minutes off of their recess. So the miscommunication was that Cooper thought she was speaking directly at him when he asked his friend for the crayon. He gave himself the timeout and took his place on the wall at recess.
Well he gets kudos for his quick thinking last night to try to escape any possible mom given punishment.
Today when he gets home from school he gets a huge lovey squeeze for his honesty with his teachers and for that 5 minute period of five year old self mastery.
He can even have ice cream if he wants it.

A birthday wish for mom - made with love from my Easy Bake Oven!
Jan. 1, 1998 - Maddie is 2 1/2
August 1999 - Davis is 8 months